A reader asked me to address this topic, and I really had to think about it. In all honesty, it’s not my strong suit and I am hardly an expert on the subject. However, for me, it usually boils down to lots and lots of reading.
First, I try to think about the level of activity I want for a trip, and use that as a guideline. I’ve spent a week in Puerto Vallarta doing absolutely nothing other than lazing on the beach for hours a day, and I’ve spent a week in
Paris cramming every activity and museum possible into every moment. Once I’ve deemed a trip one for relaxation, while I might consider hopping public transportation to a famous cafe, there’s no way I’m going to wake up at 4 in the morning for a six-hour walking tour of the city. No thanks. But that’s just me.
The next part is the longest as it can sometimes involve massive amounts of reading. If I have something specific in mind, I may google it: (‘Art activities in Seattle’). But if I have no idea what there is to do in a place I’ve never been to, you’ve got to start somewhere, right? TripAdvisor, Lonely Planet, and Fodor’s are good places to begin. They have lists of popular things to do. But most importantly, they have traveler feedback and experiences. I am a really obsessive planner at heart. If my elephant encounter in Thailand is actually three hours away from my hotel or will end with trainers aggressively begging for money, I’d prefer to read reviews and find that out beforehand.
Travel can be so much fun and so rewarding. Make the most of it.